they sum it up.

BLOG #1

you know the thing about blogging is sometimes you have an overflowing amount of thoughts you just need to chuck them somewhere. sometimes you don't want to just think about it and not talk or blog about it because sometimes it's true flesh and blood emotions or inspirations or introspection. but then entries are just a moment thing. it's a frame of mind. it's like a freeze frame. very often, when you go back to that moment, you almost don't remember how you felt. and that is especially true with anger, sadness or disappointment. because you know these things often come and go. which is the reason why you should always calm down and not say anything when in a fight because the words that often come out are hurtful and mostly untrue. and sometimes when you write it down and read and see it for yourslf, you'll see how silly you really have been. like sometimes things are so minor there really isn't a real need to be upset about. you know what i mean. so every time, after we blog about bad experiences, it often makes us feel better. because we took out the bad feelings and threw it here and there's no need to hold on to it and care about it.

and the reason why we don't blog about happy things is because there's no need to chuck it here. happy things or events are meant to be kept in the heart forever. and you only verbalise it to those people who truly matter.

BLOG #2

the reason why my blog has so many angry, angst ridden or sad entries is because im more inclined to blog when im feeling so. because i dun want to over burden my friends. happiness can wait to be shared cuz it will be there forever. but sadness and anger, i just want to blurt it all out and get it all out there in some cryptic fashion or outright in yr face im mad at this person way. get it out and i can get over it. and then i dun go think of it again. (though yes i can read about it if i reread but most of the times i dun do that.) XX is another person i know who blogs more when she’s sad or emotionally inspired.

well said. my sentiments exactly. just a place to air my negative thoughts. reflections on certain matter. and write/repost inspirational quotes/pictures/stories. look back when i'm old. and have a good laugh, in retrospect of the silliness, with future friends and loved ones, who would have known all the joy that we have shared. :)

gosh 9am, hasn't slept and wide awake! i'm so going to be dead for the chalet. holidays are here woohoo.