would you

if you see a stunning girl standing in the crowd, would you step up to her and say hi?

i just turned down two girls for dinner today. and ended up being pang seh by the group that i was supposed to have dinner with. i should have followed my heart. i should learn to choose with my heart and start opening up more. i'll being too stuck up and withdrawn not talking to my fellow colleagues at work..at least that should get me somewhere to what i have in mind..